I definitely get the phrase “a New York minute” after visiting this week. The city was enthralling, bustling, and confusing as always. It’s almost like being home when I am there for an extended period. And this visit I really I had to tear myself away to head back to DC. I initially went for … [Read more…]
I’ve had an interesting past couple of weeks. I’ve been really trying to get out and meet some new people, subs, switches, CDs, even some Doms. I decided to send a cutesy CD I’ve admired online a message, just asking if they’d like to have drinks sometime. To my surprise they agreed to almost immediately. … [Read more…]
…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Read more…]
Every person who takes the liberty of going down on a someone thinks that their technique needs no work. That the receiver, should be grateful that someone even went down on them. All of this is true but there’s even more. Let’s review what can be done to enhance your blowjob experience no matter your … [Read more…]
I finally stopped being anti-social last night and headed out to the city for a night with some fellow kinksters. It was my first meeting with the group so I brought along my most trusted entourage members: the fiance and my best male friend. It’s funny to see my vanilla man in these situations as … [Read more…]
I’m climbing the walls with an over 6 month dry spanking spell on my theoretical hands. This may seem unusual or very usual if I’m picky as I am as of late. Sometimes I wonder if I’m too narrow-visioned? When I actually sit and think about what I want in my next dominant-submissive relationship I … [Read more…]
Mistress gives me the look that says, “Sit down and shut up.” I’m already doing that but I still feel scolded when she sashays by in nothing but a pair of lacy black panties and a matching bra, holding a phone to her ear. Although her round hips and short legs look stunning as usual, … [Read more…]
People often ask me as a Mistress, what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is? As for what gets me in the mood…that’s easy, a very submissive male. A good sub who says all the right things can have me thinking of him for days. Just hearing … [Read more…]
As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re luck however as I’ve … [Read more…]
