Every person who takes the liberty of going down on a someone thinks that their technique needs no work. That the receiver, should be grateful that someone even went down on them. All of this is true but there’s even more. Let’s review what can be done to enhance your blowjob experience no matter your … [Tell me more…]
I finally stopped being anti-social last night and headed out to the city for a night with some fellow kinksters. It was my first meeting with the group so I brought along my most trusted entourage members: the fiance and my best male friend. It’s funny to see my vanilla man in these situations as … [Tell me more…]
I’m climbing the walls with an over 6 month dry spanking spell on my theoretical hands. This may seem unusual or very usual if I’m picky as I am as of late. Sometimes I wonder if I’m too narrow-visioned? When I actually sit and think about what I want in my next dominant-submissive relationship I … [Tell me more…]
Mistress gives me the look that says, “Sit down and shut up.” I’m already doing that but I still feel scolded when she sashays by in nothing but a pair of lacy black panties and a matching bra, holding a phone to her ear. Although her round hips and short legs look stunning as usual, … [Tell me more…]
People often ask me as a Mistress, what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is? As for what gets me in the mood…that’s easy, a very submissive male. A good sub who says all the right things can have me thinking of him for days. Just hearing … [Tell me more…]
As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re in luck however as … [Tell me more…]
A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Tell me more…]
Earlier this week I attended a local BDSM munch with the sweet sub. Last minute plans entailed my inviting a close friend of mine as well and we were off. Upon arriving, the sweet sub was as handsome as usual and dressed as a mild mannered frat boy (how can someone look so innocent but … [Tell me more…]
Last week I was speaking with a friend of mine who had a problem with my blog. She told me: “I hate that you say we are mundane. Why do you do that?” The “we” she is referring to are the non BDSM/vanilla folks. The weekend prior to seeing her, I met up with the … [Tell me more…]