I always seem to find the perfect guy…when I’m already in a relationship. Being the good person that I am I don’t cheat. No. I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on but have never cheated. Instead I resort to the agonizing internal self-infliction—the “What if” game. What if I were single?What if I got drunk … [Tell me more…]
I love kink but I’m not in love with kink…not anymore at least. I’m sure that feeling will come back in time but for now, I just feel sort of “meh” about the whole thing. My friends on the other hand—well that’s a different story. I’ve noticed that when I meet people who were recently … [Tell me more…]
When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Tell me more…]
It’s only been a short time but Mr. Dickless and I have already had a few bumps in the road. However, we’re starting to stand on two good feet again. This week we dined out together and he invited me back to his place. Always a good sign in my book. It was there that … [Tell me more…]
His name is Mr. Dickless and I’m making him my bitch. It started out like most Craigslist ads—I was searching for something generally specific but it was that which I knew I would never really find. Slews of replies came in before the ad was flagged for removal but his was the one that caught … [Tell me more…]
I am a keyholder. I like keys. I have always enjoyed the mysterious quality, potential and history that they hold. As a child I searched for keys with tenacity and hid them away in a wooden box with fading gold trim. I had received the box from an old relative. When I was with my … [Tell me more…]
I have mentioned to a few of you individually but I am making it officially known that I will be traveling overseas at the end of the summer. I am ecstatic! It has been far too long since I have traveled to Europe for an extended period and I plan to make the most of … [Tell me more…]
Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the natural flow of the relationship and their play time. Others don’t understand their proper place and find them amusing. While the majority of people use safewords to well…feel safe. Safewords are pre-determined word(s) or a phrase … [Tell me more…]
Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she … [Tell me more…]