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Relationships

No harm no foul

November 7, 2010 by d20domme

“Hunting” season is officially over. I wish I could say I was sad to see it go but I am exhausted from my interview-esque dating schedule. I’m happy to be able to relax and focus on myself for a bit and with the holiday months just around the corner it all works out in my … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Craigslist, fetishes, happiness, likes, list, relationship, submissives

Getting to know you

October 19, 2010 by d20domme

With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit. I am definitely interacting with more submissives on and offline than ever before. Is it wrong to feel fucking womanly knowing I am chatting with at least seven twelve fourteen different potentials? All this exploration now has … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, boundaries, dating, friends, nurse sub, objectification, play, questions, thinking, vanilla

My sexual pickles & ice cream

July 28, 2010 by d20domme

I’m climbing the walls with an over 6 month dry spanking spell on my theoretical hands. This may seem unusual or very usual if I’m picky as I am as of late. Sometimes I wonder if I’m too narrow-visioned? When I actually sit and think about what I want in my next dominant-submissive relationship I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: dating, drinking, female domination, fetishes, horny, quiet sub, self-reflection

Wearing the fishnet pants…

June 22, 2010 by d20domme

People often ask me as a Mistress, what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is? As for what gets me in the mood…that’s easy, a very submissive male. A good sub who says all the right things can have me thinking of him for days. Just hearing … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: dating, dominants, fantasy, guidelines, punishment, ramblings, self-reflection, submission, thinking

We’ll get along when you stop being dumb

May 25, 2010 by d20domme

As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re in luck however as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, fetishes, Fetlife, obedience, submissives

MonoPoly: Passing Go or Straight To Jail?

May 11, 2010 by d20domme

A lot of people are curious about my relationship status and how I maintain in general the relationships I am involved in. I’ve found that “MonoPoly” is a new buzz word that’s been making its way around the scene. After learning a bit more about it I suppose my lifestyle would fit into its category. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bf, decisions, MonoPoly, poly, polyamory, relationships, self-reflection, thinking

What if Craigslist and Adult Friend Finder had a baby?

January 28, 2010 by d20domme

I’m hardly knee deep in my quest to find a new, fitting submissive man and I decided it would be a good idea; if not just completely entertaining, to post an ad on Craigslist in the miscellaneous relationship section. Hilarity always ensues. My ad was pretty simple, the gist of it was that I was … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: Craigslist, dating, funny, relationship, submissives

*Snap*

January 19, 2010 by d20domme

Well it definitely broke…my past relationship with my last slave turned bf. We spoke briefly on New Year’s Eve but really it was more empty words without actions. Thus, I’ve decided to start the new year off proper. A lot of amazing changes are taking place (or about to) take place in my world and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, life, love, new slave, relationships, submission

Will it bend or break?

December 4, 2009 by d20domme

More and more it appears that things are not what they have seemed over the past months. My “boyfriend” and I are hardly spending any time together. He states that he just wants to be alone at home. Then he does just that with a nice 12-pack and his laptop. More often than not when … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: break-up, depression, life, love, relationships, sad, therapy, unhappy
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