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It’s not me, it’s you

March 28, 2012 by d20domme

When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, break-up, decisions, end, FemDom, mr dickless, obedience, perspective, questions, topping from the bottom, trust

Whimper once for yes, twice for more

March 4, 2012 by d20domme

It’s only been a short time but Mr. Dickless and I have already had a few bumps in the road. However, we’re starting to stand on two good feet again. This week we dined out together and he invited me back to his place. Always a good sign in my book. It was there that … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, begging, cbt, chastity, cuckolding, FemDom, male submission, mr dickless, tease and denial

Say hello to my little friend

February 10, 2012 by d20domme

His name is Mr. Dickless and I’m making him my bitch. It started out like most Craigslist ads—I was searching for something generally specific but it was that which I knew I would never really find. Slews of replies came in before the ad was flagged for removal but his was the one that caught … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, begging, cbt, cuckolding, domination, FemDom, forced bisexuality, humiliation, male submission

A key for every lock

January 27, 2012 by d20domme

I am a keyholder. I like keys. I have always enjoyed the mysterious quality, potential and history that they hold. As a child I searched for keys with tenacity and hid them away in a wooden box with fading gold trim. I had received the box from an old relative. When I was with my … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, cb6000, chastity, FemDom, guidelines, key holding, male submission, tease and denial

59 days never felt so long

July 11, 2011 by d20domme

I have mentioned to a few of you individually but I am making it officially known that I will be traveling overseas at the end of the summer. I am ecstatic! It has been far too long since I have traveled to Europe for an extended period and I plan to make the most of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, London, male submission, meeting new people, travel

Just say when

April 27, 2011 by d20domme

Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the natural flow of the relationship and their play time. Others don’t understand their proper place and find them amusing. While the majority of people use safewords to well…feel safe. Safewords are pre-determined word(s) or a phrase … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, community, guidelines, relationships, requirements, safety, safeword, thinking

Hardwired for hardware

March 2, 2011 by d20domme

Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, D/s, dating, fantasy, relationships, submission, thinking, web cam

My electric mist

February 9, 2011 by d20domme

Uninspired and a tad fed up, that’s how I’ve been feeling lately. Some readers have inquired to what happened to some of the subs I’ve mentioned last year. sweet sub all but disappeared from the map. He had some personal issues he was attending to and I haven’t really heard anything from him since. Mr. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: advice, apathetic, bdsm, Congressman, dating, failure, lemons, nurse sub, quiet sub, rant, sweet sub

Innocent until proven kinky

January 21, 2011 by d20domme

I’ve often noted that many woman get away with what I deem ‘too much‘, or in actuality ‘not enough‘ at all and men still put up with it! I know countless women who withhold sex until they get their way (usually over something trivial), only perform blowjobs on “special occasions”, shutter at the mere thought … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: .com, acceptance, bdsm, choosing, Craigslist, ideas, questions, repression, self-reflection, thinking, traits, want
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