Did I tell you the one about my birthday….? Birthdays and spankings go together like lace and leather, so it should be no surprise that it was the main focus of my birthday wishes this year. In true Mistress fashion, I threw a birthday party with lots of friends and even more alcohol! But the … [Tell me more…]
Listen up men of the interwebs…swingers ≠ polyamorous I have a few profiles floating around online and all of them mention my being in an open relationship. Despite my stating its variance to swinging the young (and sometimes much too old), dense men writing me don’t seem to understand the distinct differences. So it is … [Tell me more…]
I’ve often said that I believe flirting should be treated as a fine art. It is not something one can wander into with no experience, no clear objective, and certainly no quips on hand. For me when I am flirted with it either goes into one of two categories: 1) Nice try bum. Next! or … [Tell me more…]
In Washington, DC underestimating traffic can mean the difference between making your movie date slightly late or having to reschedule for the next week. I reminded myself this when nurse sub showed up to my house a little over two hours past our meeting time this week. He had informed me that he was going … [Tell me more…]
I have mentioned to a few of you individually but I am making it officially known that I will be traveling overseas at the end of the summer. I am ecstatic! It has been far too long since I have traveled to Europe for an extended period and I plan to make the most of … [Tell me more…]
The thumpa-thumpa that is synonymous with clubs rallied around me, piercing my veins. I love that feeling. The feeling that the club is sustaining you. Despite the drunken mishaps of a bachelorette sitting next to me I was having a good time. It was shaping up to be a good 21st birthday outing for my … [Tell me more…]
…some “submissives” do too. A few of you noticed the lack of test results up Sunday and for good reason. I’d like to say I was surprised but in actuality I kind of saw (and even anticipated) writer sub and myself not making it thru the training. I’ve always wondered what “irreconcilable differences” really meant … [Tell me more…]
For me I’ve never been typically attracted to the “manly” man. I tend to gravitate toward guys who I can fantasize about overpowering or having a fair chance at an arm wrestle match with. So it should’ve come a lot sooner to my attention that feminization, forced or otherwise, would be a fun fetish to … [Tell me more…]
Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the natural flow of the relationship and their play time. Others don’t understand their proper place and find them amusing. While the majority of people use safewords to well…feel safe. Safewords are pre-determined word(s) or a phrase … [Tell me more…]