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Fade into the background

September 5, 2024 by d20domme

i had just finished getting ready for bed when Mistress came into the room and asked me if i had enough energy to have some fun.  Even if i was much more tired than i was, the answer would have still been an automatic and enthusiastic “Yes!” “Good” Mistress said “A deal has been struck … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: bdsm, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, male submission, pet, polyandry, puppy, queening, slave, threesome

Guest of What Excites Us!: Hypnoplay

April 5, 2023 by d20domme

Some of my favorite kind of podcasts to chat on, are the ones where there is no one topic, the training wheels are off and you and the host are taking each other for a kinky-test drive out into the open audible world. That’s what chatting with Gwyn Issacs of the What Excites Us! was … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, male submission, opinion, Podcasts, poly, polyamory, polyandry, Q&A, slave, thoughts, what excites us

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour

November 5, 2022 by d20domme

You may remember a couple of years ago I chatted with the very fun and kinky duo, Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour. Lucky for me (and you!) they asked me back for more of my Femdommery ramblings that I love to chat about over a Gin Martini. We also talked… Hear all … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Podcast Tagged: 24/7, D/s, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, fetishes, lifestyle, opinion, Podcasts, Q&A, slave, thoughts, tpe

Paint me like one of ‘yours’

August 5, 2022 by d20domme

As I looked down at him writhing in purposefully bargained for pain I couldn’t help thinking to myself… ‘One year ago I started the search for a slave and with his helpless body beneath me, I could say it was worth the wait thus far.‘ Was he “the” slave? The one I’ve been cautiously creating … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, male submission, primal, slave

To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

Franken-Toy

March 18, 2010 by d20domme

More and more I’ve been thinking about the various men I have met and been with throughout my life. Sometimes I find myself wishing I could take a small souvenir of them to build what I’ve dreamed in my mind as: Franken-Toy. Franken-Toy would be my personal fuck toy. He would look, think, act, and … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: Craigslist, fantasy, female led relationship, FemDom, insomnia, list, penis, slave, submission, toys

Rant: Who cares what you want anyway?

February 18, 2010 by d20domme

If you’re a submissive male and you’ve signed yourself up for BDSM, you might as well signed in blood. You beg, plead, throw grown men tantrums, and all but cry to get the things you “want”. But honestly it’s never about what you want. Part of your submissive appeal is that you are just that…submissive. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, fetishes, list, no limits, obedience, rant, requirements, slave, submissives, topping from the bottom

slave Vs. Boyfriend

October 20, 2009 by d20domme

The epic theoretical battle that I’ve been fighting with in my head for a couple of months. If the two were liquids, they’d be oil and water. They are not meshing well. Each has their own pros and their own cons. The Boyfriend: The traditional beau. He’ll woo you until he gets you (or gets … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, bf, female domination, questions, relationships, slave, submission

Calculated compensation

October 3, 2009 by d20domme

I almost forget how much I enjoy seeing the look on my new bf’s face when we are playing. It’s a heavenly mixture of fear and arousal that gets me wet just thinking about it. We’ve been playing on and off when we see each other at night. One night he begged me to spank … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: agreement, bdsm, moving, no limits, relationships, slave, spanking, submission, submit, trust
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