female led relationship

To live is to change, is to grow

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Novices need not apply

Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Tell me more…]

Guest of What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want

This month I sat down and chatted with some amazing humans by the name of Miss Melody Pond and HiThereCatsuit a.k.a. Jon, for a feature on What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want. A few lightning rounds of kinky questions before we dove in and discussed…. Listen to us geek out on kink and more … [Tell me more…]

I was raised as an only Queen

I was raised essentially as an only child in mindset and environment. I have been wanting to write about this a lot more lately but haven’t been sure on where to start. The past few years have been extremely eye-opening, self aware and hopefully filled with opportunities to grow both inside and outside of the … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour: A POC Femdom Journey

I had the pleasure of having a virtual drink and chat with the duo Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour while they sipped a very delicious looking Mojito. They claim I am the busiest Domme in the Universe but they clearly don’t know how many, many naps I take in between everything haha. … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… Listen to our convo here and give it a listen!

The light side of dark age play

A Contribution Writing for Kink Weekly Did reading that title send a little shiver down your spine? It use to do the same for me too. When I first entered the scene many years ago (but who’s counting!), Age play wasn’t really ‘in’. It wasn’t a kink people were talking about. There were no spaces … [Tell me more…]