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The Alpha pet Femdom

November 5, 2023 by d20domme

“I access my ‘Alpha’ pet side’ when needed during a scene,” I said to the class and their collective eyes widened in surprise. “So as a pet you are a Domme? Like issuing commands and such?” one submissive male asked with hesitation. “Yes depends on how we’re playing. I don’t always use words during that … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom Tagged: bdsm, experience, FemDom, kitty, myth, perspective, pet play, primal, puppy, submission, topping

I like boys who like girly things

May 5, 2020 by d20domme

It was a long way into my kinky journey before I had given the proper amount of thinking to why I have always enjoyed the sight (and very idea!) of boys who like “girly” things. I didn’t grow up in the modern times we now find ourselves in, where gender is fluid, and crosses boundaries … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Thoughts Tagged: cross dress, forced feminization, heterocross, personal, perspective, role reversal, sexy, sissification, thoughts

Me. Me. Me?

August 24, 2018 by d20domme

Me. The Mistress. The Femdom wife. The girlfriend. The committed nesting partner. Me. You would think with a slew of labels like that it would really be all about me though wouldn’t it? But today as I made the same, short drive I make at least a dozen times a week from my boyfriend’s house … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Thoughts Tagged: 24/7, acceptance, bdsm, challenges, decisions, doubts, emotions, mental health, motivation, perspective, self-care, self-reflection, thinking

The unhappy domme

May 23, 2016 by d20domme

It’s been exactly 110 days since my puppy and I arrived back from overseas and I can’t believe time has passed so quickly. He started his second segment of training a few weeks after arriving and while we started out like a freight train, we’re having a little trouble getting over the bumps we’ve reached. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: 24/7, apologies, FemDom, male submission, mental health, perspective, puppy, ramblings, training, unhappy

The secret life of a sub

December 2, 2015 by Her puppy

She gives me a stern look while we sit on the couch. I wait for corrective action in the form of a face slap, a forceful pinch, or a swift but deliberate pull of my hair but it doesn’t come. I look around and see my friends are still talking, oblivious to my darkened thoughts. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions Tagged: female domination, male submission, perspective, puppy, relationships, submissive, vanilla, writing

It’s not me, it’s you

March 28, 2012 by d20domme

When do you get rest and relaxation in the scene when you’re searching for someone? As a dominant I often hold my breath after meeting someone new and taking them into my life. I never know if it will work out, what struggles we’ll encounter, or how we’ll actually mesh up together once we bring … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, break-up, decisions, end, FemDom, mr dickless, obedience, perspective, questions, topping from the bottom, trust

In his words…

April 11, 2011 by d20domme

“Did you bring what I asked?” Mistress asked me Sunday night. I didn’t exactly have the words to tell her that I had gone through my house and bagged all of my male underwear and put them in a shopping bag per her instructions. So I simply handed the bag over to her.“Yes, Miss.” “Good,” … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions, Femdom Tagged: cum eating, dating, FemDom, male submission, orgasm, panties, perspective, role reversal, roommate, writer sub
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