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All dressed up with somewhere to go

May 4, 2011 by d20domme

For me I’ve never been typically attracted to the “manly” man. I tend to gravitate toward guys who I can fantasize about overpowering or having a fair chance at an arm wrestle match with. So it should’ve come a lot sooner to my attention that feminization, forced or otherwise, would be a fun fetish to … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: costumes, cross dress, Drag queens, feminization, fetishes, party, play parties

No harm no foul

November 7, 2010 by d20domme

“Hunting” season is officially over. I wish I could say I was sad to see it go but I am exhausted from my interview-esque dating schedule. I’m happy to be able to relax and focus on myself for a bit and with the holiday months just around the corner it all works out in my … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Craigslist, fetishes, happiness, likes, list, relationship, submissives

Xdressing: Confusing fun for all

October 30, 2010 by d20domme

A few weekends ago I had the pleasure of attending my first crossing dressing party. I’ve been to crossdressing events and shows in the past, but this was the first event where I was invited to participate. A week prior to the event I tried desperately to find a way to strap down my 46DDDs. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: acceptance, cross dress, female domination, fetishes, friends, shopping, thinking

While the cat’s away, the yuppies will play

October 14, 2010 by d20domme

I definitely get the phrase “a New York minute” after visiting this week. The city was enthralling, bustling, and confusing as always. It’s almost like being home when I am there for an extended period. And this visit I really I had to tear myself away to head back to DC. I initially went for … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: affection, begging, Collarme, female domination, FemDom, fetishes, Fetlife, happiness, play, submission, subs, talks, thinking

What women want

September 16, 2010 by d20domme

…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dating, decisions, FemDom, fetishes, ideas, relationships

My sexual pickles & ice cream

July 28, 2010 by d20domme

I’m climbing the walls with an over 6 month dry spanking spell on my theoretical hands. This may seem unusual or very usual if I’m picky as I am as of late. Sometimes I wonder if I’m too narrow-visioned? When I actually sit and think about what I want in my next dominant-submissive relationship I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: dating, drinking, female domination, fetishes, horny, quiet sub, self-reflection

Under Mistress’s Spell

July 13, 2010 by d20domme

Mistress gives me the look that says, “Sit down and shut up.” I’m already doing that but I still feel scolded when she sashays by in nothing but a pair of lacy black panties and a matching bra, holding a phone to her ear. Although her round hips and short legs look stunning as usual, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Contributions, Personal Journal Tagged: cb6000, collar and leash, dating, fetishes, friends, Josuha, lace, life, punishment, submissives, tease and denial

We’ll get along when you stop being dumb

May 25, 2010 by d20domme

As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re in luck however as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, fetishes, Fetlife, obedience, submissives

Rant: Who cares what you want anyway?

February 18, 2010 by d20domme

If you’re a submissive male and you’ve signed yourself up for BDSM, you might as well signed in blood. You beg, plead, throw grown men tantrums, and all but cry to get the things you “want”. But honestly it’s never about what you want. Part of your submissive appeal is that you are just that…submissive. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, fetishes, list, no limits, obedience, rant, requirements, slave, submissives, topping from the bottom
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