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AM arousal

April 5, 2022 by Her puppy

I was fast asleep when I felt something on my back and shoulders that made me stir. Mistress was on top of me. She whispered into my ear, “I’m going to fuck you slut, I don’t care if you are ready.” Before I could even let out a response, I felt her hand wrap around … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: D/s, female domination, FemDom, male submission, pegging, sissy

Keep your standards too high

March 5, 2022 by d20domme

Keep your standards too high I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: D/s, dating, FemDom, love, relationships, self awareness, self love, submission, thinking

To live is to change, is to grow

January 5, 2022 by d20domme

It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kink, male submission, polyamory, relationships, slave, thinking

What Bianca wants, Bianca gets

March 24, 2011 by d20domme

I’m not usually superstitious but I’ve been waiting to announce my most recent happenings. “…We have to squeeze a lot of frogs before we find that prince who says ‘Thank you, Mistress harder.‘ I couldn’t have said it a moment sooner as I believe I have found a potential submissive. In actuality he is a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: beginning, Bianca, D/s, FemDom, happiness, spanking, switches

Hardwired for hardware

March 2, 2011 by d20domme

Years ago I had a very unique and private photography job. I trekked into Washington, DC to an old row house just on the outskirts of the city. A significantly older woman than I was expecting answered. When she saw me she greeted me in but also expressed that I was much younger than she … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, D/s, dating, fantasy, relationships, submission, thinking, web cam

Married without children

November 18, 2010 by d20domme

I use to have another blog on this site that I used primarily for meticulously detailed information on how I was training my sub at the time. While I found it fun at the time it sort of petered out once we broke up and I haven’t updated it since. I was contemplating whether or … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: anger, bdsm, bitchy, D/s, decisions, female domination, ideas, lies, life, marriage

What women want

September 16, 2010 by d20domme

…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, D/s, dating, decisions, FemDom, fetishes, ideas, relationships

We’ll get along when you stop being dumb

May 25, 2010 by d20domme

As I logged into my Fetlife account today I saw that I had several messages waiting to be read. Sometimes I dread the messages on that site, sometimes I look forward to them. After skimming through I realized I had several “Oh-pick-me-please-Mistress-I’ll-be-the-best-sub messages“. These usually amuse me for several reasons. You’re in luck however as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, D/s, female domination, fetishes, Fetlife, obedience, submissives

Want to play a game?

September 9, 2009 by d20domme

That’s what the new bf whispered to me tonight while we were lying in bed tonight. We had just winded down an intense ten minutes of biting and scratching and dry humping and he sounded almost out of breath with his question.  “What kind of game,” I asked him playfully.  “A game where you’re a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, collar and leash, D/s, face slapping, family, play, relationships, slave, spitting, thinking
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