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Rant: Poly =/= ‘Open for business’

Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Tell me more…]

Guest of What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want

This month I sat down and chatted with some amazing humans by the name of Miss Melody Pond and HiThereCatsuit a.k.a. Jon, for a feature on What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want. A few lightning rounds of kinky questions before we dove in and discussed…. Listen to us geek out on kink and more … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Kinky Cocktail Hour: A POC Femdom Journey

I had the pleasure of having a virtual drink and chat with the duo Lady Petra and SafferMaster of Kinky Cocktail Hour while they sipped a very delicious looking Mojito. They claim I am the busiest Domme in the Universe but they clearly don’t know how many, many naps I take in between everything haha. … [Tell me more…]

#BlackLivesMatter

Right now is a particularly difficult and tragic time for the black community in the United States of America. The world is watching us fail our black and POC citizens across the board. There’s a message bigger than any kink topics I can offer this month. I am sharing an infographic for those of you … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Aunt Suzie’s Sex-Cast: Deeper Into Femdom

I hung out with the fabulous Aunt Suzie and her producer Ashlen this month. This was a live interview with questions from listeners about Femdomming, and BDSM lifestyles or just about anything you can think of when it comes to being in the BDSM Community. We chatted about kink lifestyle, hottest moments, and strangest and … [Tell me more…]

Rant: Fight for your community

Long before the virus broke fully out, I had my own ideas about social gatherings, touching, close quarter playing and more. To be honest, I don’t really like being in an enclosed space with sweaty people and body fluids. Beyond my general dislike for my own sweat, let alone someone else’s, I’ve witnessed quite a … [Tell me more…]

Less labels more talking

As humans we have an innate obsession with placing labels on everything, including ourselves. Labels help give people a false sense of order and a way to separate things. However, we aren’t things; we’re people first and heavily using labels to categorize people isn’t fair. It takes away the depth and complexity each of us … [Tell me more…]

Guest of Talkin’ Taboo: Truths of A Femdom

A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… Listen to our convo here and give it a listen!