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Breaking the habit

September 17, 2015 by d20domme

“I want to do the most disgusting fucked up shit with you,” he said with a sigh into the telephone. I squeezed my eyes tightly, gripping my own phone and tried to stop the flash of images running through my mind: Taking him over my knee and spanking him until he cried and then as … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, Collarme, Collarspace, female domination, FemDom, long distance, pet play

Femdom: Not all it’s pegged up to be

August 29, 2015 by d20domme

I am a FemDom. I am a female dominant who controls the relationships I am in through the use of power exchange and an overall power dynamic. This is my public service announcement to say something that has really irritated me for quite some time. FEMDOM ≠ Strap-on play! It doesn’t equal pegging, anal play, … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom, Thoughts Tagged: anal play, anal sex, female domination, female led relationship, FemDom, pegging, rant, strap-on, thinking

A ‘Weekend Reunion’

July 21, 2015 by d20domme

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number of kinksters who I identified with. I’m certainly not one who prefers to be surrounded only by people who share the same skin color as me, but I do find … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, dungeon, female domination, FemDom, male submission, photography, PoC, squashing, Weekend Reunion

When nothing goes right…go left?

May 4, 2015 by d20domme

I’m in a BDSM slump. I’ve been in them before but they usually fix themselves before long. They’ve not lasted for a year or more, yet here I am. There was a time long ago in my early scene years where I thought I liked training submissives. I was good at it. It was a … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, female domination, FemDom, male submission, motivation, slump, thinking, training

It ain’t easy being kinky

April 29, 2014 by d20domme

I’m having a mid-kink identity crisis. I’ve come to notice it’s not as easy as, “I think therefore I am” within the kink community or kinky mindset. Over the years I’ve evolved into my own image of what I want to embody as kink. There are certain activities I won’t engage in and others I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Thoughts Tagged: acceptance, bdsm, community, female domination, FemDom, ramblings, thinking

Meet the ‘Ice Queen’

March 3, 2014 by d20domme

Before we began, she gave me a simple instruction. â€śUntil I say otherwise, you are not to make a sound.” I nodded in agreement. As I stood there, naked aside from the purple see-through underwear, she began to work the rope around my torso. I didn’t know what she had in store for me, yet I couldn’t help getting erect at … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: ass worship, assplay, bdsm, bondage, female domination, obedience, objectification, outdoor play, tease and denial

Building blocks of trust

June 3, 2013 by d20domme

The boy has asked for more D/s in his life.  I’ve been cautiously giving him a little taste here and there hoping to tide him over until I decide if he’s ready for a full course meal. He has now told me he is hungry and he has a craving.  Externally he can handle nearly … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, mental domination, self-reflection, submission, trust

Wet behind the ears – Part II

September 26, 2012 by d20domme

His pupils dilated. He never said how rough (or not rough) I could be. Instead all he had said was, “Use my body.”A And I was doing just that. I loosened my group from around his Adam’s apple and pushed him to the ground with my pointed toes. He had removed my heels earlier in … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: assplay, bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, no limits, queening, submission, tease and denial

Wet behind the ears – Part I

August 29, 2012 by d20domme

He had agreed to this.To give me his body.Granting me full control to use it how I saw fit. He wasn’t a submissive but he had what I’d call “submissive tendencies”. Our relationship thus far had proved that much. Now it was time to see exactly how much he trusted me with his body. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, bf, Bianca, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, obedience, relationship, submission, tease and denial
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