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Kinky Bucket List: 40 at 40

January 5, 2024 by d20domme

This year I will be double d20s! 

I entered the kink community nearly 20 years ago as a student and observer and stand now as a kinky lifestyle educator. I still love to chronicle my transition from mundane to the marvelous Mistress I see reflected back in the mirror each day. To say I am thankful for my place here and all that I have in my life would be an understatement – and it feels even sweeter knowing over 100k of you have been here with me over the years! 

For those who know me inside and outside of kink, you might know I’m a bit of a do-er. I don’t fear challenges. I follow my heart (*waves* to Puppy). I like to try new, weird, scary things just for the experiences. When I say I’m going to accomplish something it goes on a short and purposeful list…much like the one I’m going to share with you all.

I’m looking to go big this year with some fun and freaky times. I want to ā€œcompleteā€ 40 things at 40. My parameters are basically: 

  • I will split the list into 20 vanilla things and 20 kinky things to do this year. Honestly this is just a shameless way for me to focus on my kinky bucket list I’ve put to the side as of late. 
  • I will have until January 2025 to do as many things on the list that I can. I’ll try to not feed my internal completionist and just do what I can without stressing.
  • I will take as many pics for verification and exhibitionism as I can and share during my monthly newsletter ā€˜Natural 20’. Did I miss a month? Don’t you dare poke me with a ā€œfriendly reminderā€, you will regret it. I’ll get to it on the 20th of the month if I can and if I don’t, there’s always next month.

So what wild stuff is d20 planning? Take a look below. I’ll try not to change this list unless it becomes clear something is absolutely impossible, ya know, like most of the plans we all had for 2020.

  1. Order a custom latex piece to add to my kinky fashion collection
  2. Book a boudoir session
  3. Get nipples pierced
  4. Be serviced by a two naked slaves one with an assortment of fruit and alcohol-free champagne standing at my side, the other worshiping my pussy
  5. Keep Patreon active/updated
  6. Visit nudist resort with partner(s)
  7. Attend an international kink event with both pets or any event with me
  8. Sissy slumber party
  9. Invest in a vac bed or Sybian
  10. Make friends with a new kinkster(s) to do kink events and vanilla outings with
  11. Create a kinky board/card game
  12. Dollification photoshoot
  13. Host a small Femdom party
  14. Loan out one of my sissies for paid maid service – payment reflective of their job
  15. Tickle torture someone until they pee themselves
  16. Design and find ‘my cock’ in strap-on form (hope it squirts!) This will be the cock my sluts service regularly.
  17. Mummification and underwater scene
  18. Publicly pee on my slut(s) with a co-top (male identified)
  19. Live stream 24-hours from our dungeon
  20. Design and sit for a kinky tattoo

Having concrete goals is a great motivator to get things done, whether that’s a daily to-do list, sexy bucket list or a life-long dream. Lots of people have ā€œbucket listsā€ of things they want to do in their lifetime, but that idea can also apply to your sex life. Do you have any sexual fantasies you’d really like to make a reality? Are there naughty and kinky things you’ve always wanted to try in but haven’t gotten to yet? Making a list of the things you want to do is a great way to share these ideas with your partner(s) or to self-motivate you to get them done.

Let’s start checking off some sexual bucket list items. Follow my adventure by signing up for my Patreon where I’ll share my monthly updates in detail as I work my way through my kinky bucket list.

Posted in: Personal Journal Tagged: 40th birthday, bdsm, bucket list, D/s, female led relationship, FemDom, kinky, Patreon
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