Well I think it’s fair to say 2017 has been one of the more interesting and eventful years of my life. While it hasn’t quite matched 2016 for the sheer level of kink, it’s certainly made up for that in dramatics.
2016 was the year I made the trip across the ocean to enter stage two of Mistress’s training regime. 2017 was unfortunately the year that due to government rules and regulations (who I found out just like Mistress’s rules and regulations are not to be messed with) forced me to return back across the pond to England.
For some couples that may have been enough to stop trying but instead we decided to embark on a long distance, poly, kinky relationship. Sounds complicated right? Well really that is the basis of how we met, and throughout the year a combination of tasks, webcams, assignments, phone calls, vacations, trips, talks and the occasional tears have all contributed to helping us to keep the magic flowing.
Despite spending around 80% of the year on different continents, we have still managed to create some wonderful kinky memories. We attended my first event in London, and it was certainly memorable, perhaps for the wrong reasons. Back home in America we had developed a bit of a reputation for lavish and intense scenes. When we arrived at this event there was a lot of talking and not much playing. Now we don’t mind to socialise but after over two months of no BDSM we were both keen to play. There wasn’t much else to watch and within a few minutes it seemed as if almost everyone there, around 100 people, were crammed into this small room watching her beat me. Everytime I looked up, someone was looking. After the beating was complete she took me to the bed in the room and pegged me. I think it’s fair to say that this British crowd had never quite seen anything like it before.
A couple of weeks later we also had one of our more intense role plays; an intense, loud and highly painful domestic beat down. This involved Mistress coming back from a long business trip and finding that her sissy Josy had left the house a mess, dinner was made, and she wasn’t in the dress she was meant to be. I must have done something right though, as later that night as we ate dinner Mistress gave me a letter, offering me her collar, if I could pass 3 tests over the next year or so.
May 2017 was the month that everything changed for us. I was denied entry to the US, but Mistress wouldn’t allow us to be apart. She came back with me the next day and just a week or so later, I was down on one knee, asking (begging) for her hand in marriage. Thankfully she accepted and agreed to become Mrs Puppy. We are now in the long and tricky process of visas being processed, which has been challenging for us both, but we are still just as determined to be together, no matter what is thrown at us.
The kink filled fun and adventures didn’t stop when we got engaged though. On our anniversary we took a trip to Amsterdam to indulge in some of the cities more disgusting and naughty areas. It wasn’t our first three way, but perhaps it was the most memorable.
After Amsterdam we went back to London, and Mistress took her Josy girl for a night on the town. When you consider that two years ago the idea of sissy play was only a fantasy for me, to be out in public, in my home city, meeting an online stranger and going to a bar, wearing full dress and make up, was a huge step for me and one I couldn’t have done without Mistress at my side.
Our final time seeing each other before Christmas was a vacation to Iceland. Although we didn’t do anything too crazy we did have some fun, and we were able to enjoy National Humiliation Day together, which Involved a trip to the national penis museum. Josy was also taken out for Halloween (any excuse to dress up) and we cherished every moment of our short trip together before we had to go our separate ways at Reykjavik airport.
All the kinky fun we had together this year was wonderful, but I think what really kept us going was the kink dynamic we created while we were apart. Mistress spent a lot of time writing training tasks and weeks focusing on various different types of BDSM from puppy play, littles play, female supremacy week and many more. These tasks gave me focus and purposes, and allowed me to feel useful to her even when I was thousands of miles away. My final assignment of the year was writing a paper about the Egyptian Pharaohs and how I could treat Mistress as one. I haven’t received my final grade yet, but hopefully I’ll pass.
So to sum up, I have had a pretty kinky and exciting year. I got engaged to my dream girl, and really nothing else has mattered. I’m so determined to the be the submissive husband she has always dreamed of, and will continue to make her happy, and make sure she knows she found the submissive who was meant for her.
Whatever 2018 brings, I feel ready for it.