Being a person of color who enjoys BDSM can be an isolating experience—but that shouldn’t be the case. We have the same rights as everyone to indulge in our deepest sexual desires and receive support through other POC and allies as well. This month I ramble on about… Being POC and Kinky Inclusion facilitating exclusion … [Read more…]
It can be hard to say what you want and need but it is important to draw lines in the sand about what your boundaries are. This month I will discuss just what that looks like for me… My personal/kink boundaries Kinky Question of The Day Next podcast topics: Being POC in kink, finding your … [Read more…]
A while ago, I was a guest of Sadie’s on her podcast Talkin’ Taboo. We had a lovely chat (as well as a her bio-pup sneaking in!) about a lot of the truths I live with as the type of Femdom I am. We chatted about… My local kink community Viewpoints as a POC and … [Read more…]
Last month I took a few minutes to speak with Dan an Dawn of Erotic Awakening and Beyond The Love. They’re the original big thinkers behind the annual 3-day polyamory convention in Columbus, Ohio. Check it out if you are curious or identify as polyamorous for “Education, workshops, social activities, meeting other polyamory people and more”. In 2017 … [Read more…]
Over the years there have been kinks that I wholeheartedly threw myself into and absolutely hated (bootblacking). There’s ones I was sure I would loathe but ended up loving (spitting) and there are some that just wormed their way through my kinky cracks, like ASMR that I haven’t been able to stop being fascinated with. … [Read more…]
A few months ago I was honored enough to be dubbed ‘Dr. Doom with Tits‘ by the members of the Off The Cuffs podcast. They’re such an animated and laid back group and I can’t wait to speak with them more! Dick Wound, Kate Smash, and Max are definitely worth a regular listen when you … [Read more…]
Last month while I was in Europe, puppy and I were lucky enough to sit down with the lovely Floss and Bakji Ben of Proud To Be Kinky. Those two were a blast to get off on tangents with haha. We discussed: How to stay connected with your kink partner long distance Rituals and chastity … [Read more…]
We’re back with Woody (and the Beast!) of KinkyCast as delve further into what to do as you’re finding your way in a new community. Such as: Finding a mentor to show you around the kink community Being safe and setting limits for yourself and others Managing expectations Educating yourself on BDSM and kink to be … [Read more…]
A while back we were asked to speak on podcast KinkyCast and it was a no brainer that we wanted to be involved. As a guest of Woody’s we discuss: Finding your local scene and community Researching your role in BDSM or kink Vetting others before playing Playing safely with fellow kinksters It’s up live … [Read more…]
